QUOTE (Zadok_Faith @ Aug 1 2009, 10:37 AM)

Good topic ! Please share

Part Deux
Ok, the really hard part is over once you get that off your back. Remember, ask them if there is anything you can do to get a better rate? Write it down and, after a few months, and call back. You never know. When you decide on a vendor, write down all the pertinent info (name, email and phone) particularly anything you needed to do to achieve a better rate. Even one success is really an accomplishment when you think about it.
Now make yourself a budget on a spreadsheet and keep notes of upcoming bills, prescription renewal, when you need to see doctor, etc. One separate page of my budget is the grocery list where I list dishes I like to eat and don't cost much like vegetable soup, meatloaf, etc. I keep a magnetized list on the fridge where I list the things I need. Then I look up online the current circulars of the 3 stores nearest to me and make my list by store and then print out any coupons. When I get there I don't waste any time because I know what I want. Get in and get out. The budget keeps me right on schedule and tells me if I can afford to buy something extra. And,oh yeah, it gives you the bad news real quick too.
So now I made lifestyle changes. I have never lived lavishly but I do have some very nice things. I intend to enjoy them. Living alone made any bullet biting a lot easier. Hey, if I open the fridge and there's only Black Raspberry ice cream, I am living large.

The Bank - (1) don't buy their checks, order mail order. Better yet only pay online. Currently, I no longer need stamps and bills pay themselves with the exception of one. I had so many 1 and 2 cent stamps left over from the Post Office changing their prices that I just use those for that one bill. You ought to see my envelope at 44 cents.

(2) Use your debit card for all your purchases instead of cash which I swear jumps out of my wallet and sneaks away. You'll have a complete hard copy of where you spent what. This is great for your monthly budget, account reconciliation, and taxes. Just make sure that you understand when your account will and will not be charged a fee. My bank doesn't charge me anything if I use it like a credit card. If I use it as a debit card, they charge me $.75 for each transaction.
Speaking of taxes, consider using "Turbo Tax" and "It's Deductible". These 2 software programs are now owned by Intuit and are meant to work together. It's Deductible uses the official government assessments for any donation. You simply select the condition of the item based on their guidelines. If you try to assign a $ amount to your donation, I know you'll underestimate. Better to take the IRS's $ figures. PS.."It's Deductilble" is available all over the internet and I think you can pay for it when you use Turbo Tax. Anyway it's about $15 at Sam's Club. If you file online and ask for a direct deposit, you'll get your federal refund within 10 days and your state refund within 5.
Now back to the budget. I set up each month separately (on contiguous pages) so I can note when I have paid the annual cost and when it is due again. I use the tax refund to clear out the most painful bills like property taxes (which eliminates the escrow amount from my mortgage payment), car insurance, condo insurance, and Home Owners Association fees. When you are able to do that, you can see that you have breathing room and can plan for the non-essentials. Also, buying groceries without a list or a budget is just like a baby driving your car. It never ends well. Once you see how much control you are having over your money through this budget spreadsheet, you'll feel so responsible and like a really good steward.
Ok, let's build some character shall we? I can't hear youuuu. LOL.
I know I'm not reinventing the wheel with any of this and reminding me of that will take the starch right out of me.
Personal Grooming. Buy stick deodorant. Be careful that only 1 person uses it and only after a shower. Just ask the queen of funny lumpy things - me. Using a cloth washcloth is a fine exfoliater for your face. Always use moisturizer - buy a large container of something decent at Sam's. It will last forever. (No I don't own stock in Sam's, I just talk about it endlessly.)
Bath. I buy my shampoos, conditioners, body washes in humongous bottles from ... all together now...Sam's Club. I usually water them down about 1/3 water and 2/3 product to start. Then add more from there if you want. I do this to all my soaps and conditioners. Dawn and hand soap like Soft Soap will last forever and remain so sudsy and fragrant. Try it and you'll start to get a grip on the amount of products you've been wasting. If you, like me, have always maintained your hair at home then you know how much $$ that's worth. Cut, color, blow dry yikes! That's about $125 at my salon. Puleeze. FYI, if you're buying those large bottles from Sams you will need to transfer them to smaller bottles for the shower. The small Heinz ketchup plastic bottle works great for me. The little insert inside the lid let's you control how much you squeeze out AND, because I am not fearful of breaking up my uninsured body in a wet tub, I put large flat rubber bands around the center of the bottle to be able to grip it without dropping. Geez, this is like a documentary ...
Medications. Get a list together and check prices online and at the local drug stores and dept stores like Target and Walmart. While you're at Target or Walmart, price just getting an exam and reusing your own frames. With those savings, you can consider polarized lens which are a big help and look great.
Alrighty then. I see everyone is asleep or out looking in the fridge so that's it for now. Next episode find Judy doing laundry. Don't miss it!